The "perfect" baby.

Every expectant mother dreams of having the “perfect” baby. After years of struggling to conceive, my husband and I were thrilled to be expecting twin girls, but on May 8, 2005, the day our twins were born, that dream was shattered. Brooke was born without complications, and would be what anyone would consider the “perfect” baby. Her twin sister, however, was not so fortunate. Sydney was born with a condition known as Treacher Collins, her face looks different than you and I. In those first agonizing hours after your child is born, you would give anything to “fix” their deficiencies and make them “perfect”. As time goes by, the recognition of their physical differences fade and in its’ place you see a beautiful smile, a sweet spirit, and a fun and happy personality. It is then that you realize that you did have the “perfect” child. I know Sydney has a purpose, and I am honored to be her mother. Together, our mission is to educate the public and increase acceptance of children with differences. These children are just like every other child. Although they may look, talk or walk different, they still have the same desires, to be loved, accepted and to act & be treated like any other "normal" individual. Due to their conditions, these children must endure so many unavoidable hardships in life. The way they are treated & accepted by society is yet another issue in their already complicated lives. I believe through education, our society will become more aware, knowledgeable & accepting of these precious children, & make their lives just a little easier. Please help us and talk with your children, friends and family members. By educating those in your circle, you will be helping enrich the lives of these special children.